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To All The Wounded Healers I Know…
(This was going to originally be a post for Clergy, but I realized its needed for my therapy colleagues as well…and so it is.) Last night a good friend of mine SCREAMED in anguish about the Kavanaugh/Blasey Ford hearings. She is a survivor of sexual and/or physical abuse. I wanted to reach out to her…
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Not A Good Time for “Not All Men”
Years ago, my friend Margo Moten, who is Black, pointed out a Black man hanging out on a street corner near her house, and she said, “I hate that guy. He makes all Blacks look bad”. I had never thought of it before, she clearly wasn’t him, and I don’t like to generalize, but I…
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Re: Blasey Ford v. Kavanaugh
Equal justice Under Law. Due Process. Right and Wrong. Each of these issues needs to be addressed by any sitting judge, let alone a Supreme Court Justice. There are many questions to be answered: 1) Do politicians play politics? 2) Do men rape or attempt to rape women? The answer to both of those questions…
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Hate CAN NOT Win: BlackkKlansman and Our Times
” Now a new king arose over Egypt, who did not know Joseph. 9 He said to his people, “Look, the Israelite people are more numerous and more powerful than we. 10 Come, let us deal shrewdly with them, or they will increase and, in the event of war, join our enemies and fight against us and…
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Really?! How Hard Is This?!
I walk down the street, I drive in my car, I go to work and I never, ever accuse a Black person of swimming in a pool, or of breaking into a house, or of raping a member of my family, or robbing a bank. It doesn’t seem that hard to me. There are a…
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What They’re Going To Find and What We’re Going To Find…
As the Mueller investigation gets deeper and deeper, from what I read, this is what they will find: There is a whole bunch of people who have most of the world’s wealth and they got it through illicit means. Not everyone who has wealth is evil, but those who are evil continue to chase money.…
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Does That Star-Spangled Banner Yet Wave O’er The Land of the Free? Or the Home of the Brave?
Fourth of July has always been strange, but good. Unlike Memorial Day or Veterans Day, which celebrate war and the need to make veterans, the Fourth celebrates an idea. It represents freedom or the attempt at freedom, and a new outlook on the way things should be. No, it wasn’t perfect, but it was a…
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Radical Jesus Is Not Happy With The U.S.
Jesus’ ministry begins with John: “ Then the people of Jerusalem and all Judea were going out to [John], and all the region along the Jordan, 6 and they were baptized by him in the river Jordan, confessing their sins. 7 But when he saw many Pharisees and Sadducees coming for baptism, he said to them, “You…
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On LGBTQi? Rights and The World Right Now
For as many years as I can remember, I have wondered what all the fuss was about. Why do I care about who is sleeping with who? Why do I care about who is in love with who? Why is it any of my business? Why is it any of my concern? Who died and…
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Let’s Talk About Law, Justice, and Ethics
I have been fascinated by, and far more aware of, our legal system over the last four or five years. It amazes me how many different ways there are to see the same event legally, how many processes there are –or can be — in the administration of justice, and how different rules/laws are applied…